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Why You Should Evaluate Your Goals Every Three Months

January 27, 2017 by jlmdiscovery

How many times have you set a goal at the start of the new year and practically forgotten about it halfway through?

Goals are like flowers – you can’t just plant the seeds and walk away.  You need to tend to them, check in on them, and cultivate them.

The best way to tend to your goals is to evaluate them at least every three months.  Even the most basic review will keep them fresh in your mind.  Here’s why:

Why You Should Evaluate Your Goals Every Three Months

You Renew Your Commitment

You know that motivation you feel when you kick off your New Year’s resolutions?  It’s usually enough to power you through the first few weeks at least.

Checking in on your goals once a quarter is like giving yourself a restart button.  Imagine having that invigorating burst of focus three more times in a year.  If nothing else, it will get you that much closer to achieving your goals.

Start by reviewing your list of goals.  For each one, remind yourself why you set it and what you have to gain by reaching it.  Then either continue your current plan of action or create a new one.  Commit to those new steps and surround yourself with inspiration.

You Make Adjustments

It’s easy to have grand plans at the start of the year.  But sometimes those plans aren’t as realistic as you thought.  Or they just aren’t as effective as you thought.

Looking over your goals every few months gives you the opportunity to review what’s working and what’s not.  This is the only way you can make adjustments that will really have an impact.

If it’s not working, you have a few options:

  1. Adjust your plan of action.  Maybe you expected to workout for an hour each day and realized you just don’t have the time.  So instead you could change your plan to working out for 30 minutes or an hour three times per week.
  2. Adjust the goal itself.  Maybe you set a goal of saving up for your dream house within in the year.  Halfway though you realize it’s just not feasible in that time frame.  So instead you change your objective to saving half of the down payment.
  3. Adjust your mindset.  Maybe you were excited to start fresh but lost motivation when things didn’t progress as quickly as you wanted.  This is a great time to build up your support system and recommit.

On the other hand, perhaps your progress is going better than you thought.  You may have even reached your goal already.  In this case you have two options:

  1. Stretch your goal.  Maybe you set a business goal of reaching $50,000 in sales but you’re already at $60,000.  Why not stretch your goal to $100,000 and see if you can push yourself that much further.
  2. Celebrate and move on to other goals.  If you’ve reached your goal and you’re content with it, hooray!  Put that one aside and make one of your others a priority.

Speaking of celebration…

You Celebrate More Successes

Celebrate Your Successes

Most people prefer instant gratification over waiting on progress.  Waiting is hard – you put in all this effort and for a while you may not even know if it’s paying off.  When progress is slow we lose confidence in our abilities and willpower.

Performing a quarterly check-in gives you the chance to take a look back at how far you’ve come in the past three months.  Celebrate the wins, even if they’re small.  And if you haven’t reached any milestones yet, celebrate the effort you’ve put in so far.

If it helps you, set up a reward for reaching each milestone.  Plan it at the start of the year so you know what you have to look forward to.

You Keep Yourself on a Deadline

It’s easy to procrastinate when you feel like you have an entire year ahead of you.  You start off with your action steps on your to do list, but they quickly get pushed to the next day, and the next day, and the next day, because they don’t feel time-sensitive.

When you set three month milestones you’ve suddenly narrowed your schedule.  Instead of having 365 days to reach a goal, you now have only 90.  You can even narrow that down further into monthly goals.  This keeps you focused on making your goals a priority in your life.

 

Creating Quarterly Goal Reviews

So how do you set up these check-ins?  Here’s how to get started:

  1. Schedule four reviews in your calendar.  Set reminders and consider them mandatory appointments with yourself.
  2. Break your larger goals into 2-4 milestones.  These are stepping stones to your overall objectives.  Assign them to each quarter.
  3. During each quarterly review, ask yourself the following:
    1. Why do I want to reach this goal?
    2. What progress have I made so far?  Have I reached my goal?
    3. What has been working?  How can I keep this up?
    4. What hasn’t been working?  How can I make adjustments?
    5. What am I grateful for in the past three months?
    6. What is my new plan of action?
  4. Update your calendars with your new plans.

If you’re looking for a planner or journal set up to accommodate quarterly reviews, check out the Powersheets Goal Planner or the Daily Greatness Journal (I love both of these).

Keep cultivating those goals and you’re sure to make those dreams come true!

Filed Under: Featured, Life Tagged With: goals, motivation, New Year's, planning, resolutions

21 Ways to Stay Accountable to Your [Health and Fitness] Goals

January 20, 2017 by jlmdiscovery

21 Ways to Stay Accountable to Your Health & Fitness Goals

Raise your hand if you’ve ever set a health or fitness resolution.

Now raise your hand if you’ve ever struggled with achieving your health or fitness resolution.

I doubt you actually raised your hand (I wouldn’t), but I know you’re thinking about goals you’ve set in the past that fizzled out after a few weeks of attempts.  Reaching our goals is hard.  But that’s not a bad thing.  The best goals push us forward and show us who we can be.

I have several of my own health goals for this year, so I’ve been studying ways to stay focused. I’ve learned that the process is the same for almost any type of goal.  It’s about accountability and letting our values and personality drive our efforts.

Here are 21 ways to stay accountable to your health and fitness goals!

 

Establish Your Goals

1. Set Specific, Achievable Goals

How can you hold yourself accountable to a goal if you haven’t defined it?  It would be like shooting an arrow with no target.  Make sure your goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-based (i.e. S.M.A.R.T. goals).

2. Know Your “Why”

Ask yourself the following questions:

  • How will your life be different once you achieve your goals?
  • How will you feel if you don’t make progress?
  • What do you value in life?

When you understand why you want to reach your goals and how they fit within your values you’ll have powerful motivation to complete them.

3. Break Your Goals into Bite-Sized Pieces

Big goals are great, but it’s easy to feel like you’re not making any progress.  Break each goal into milestones, and then break those down into weekly tasks or daily habits.  When you have steps to focus on each day/week/month, you’ll know you’re moving closer to your goals.

4. Write Down Your Goals Officially

Writing down your goals is like signing a contract with yourself.  State your resolutions and lay out your plan for accomplishing them.  Include your motivations, timeline, and milestones.

5. Post Your Goals Where You Can See Them Frequently

Out of sight is often out of mind, so post your goals in a few places around your house or on your phone.  I use reminder apps to send me a notification daily.  I also love posting index cards to my bulletin board in my office.  Another idea is to write your goals in your journal every day to keep them fresh in your mind.

6. Share Your Goals

It’s been shown that people feel more accountable to their goals when they share their intentions with friends and family.  Discuss your goals with loved ones and ask them to support you.  Social media has similar abilities, so why not share your resolutions in a Facebook or Twitter post?

 

Stay Motivated

7. Create a Schedule and Set Timers

Create a meal plan, add workouts to your calendar, and set reminders to alert you of your plans.  We get so caught up in our current lives and distractions that it can seem impossible to add anything else to our plates.  You can make it all work if you stick to your plans and trust your timers.

8. Help Your Future Self (Plan Ahead)

Be your own accountability partner by doing as much preparation and planning in advance as you can.  Lay out your workout clothes the night before, prep healthy meals, fill the fridge with fresh, filtered water, and do anything else you can to make life easier for your “future self”.

9. Fill Your Inbox/News Feed with Inspiration

Follow some of your favorite health and fitness pages on Facebook or Twitter.  Subscribe to daily tips or meal ideas straight to your inbox.  When you surround yourself with support for your goals you’ll get inspiration even when you’re distracting yourself with a social media break.

10. Educate Yourself on Your Goals

Take the time to learn more about your health and fitness goals, whether that means studying nutrition via an online course or watching videos on proper weightlifting form.  The more you understand the benefits of what you are trying to achieve, the more committed you will be.

Marathon

11. Sign Up for a Competition

Competitions are great because they give you specific goals and a deadline.  Races are fun for runners (or soon-to-be-runners), but you can also consider weightlifting competitions, tournaments, or even friendly weight loss competitions.

12. Support a Cause

If you’d like to help others while helping yourself, why not sign up for a charity run?  You can also volunteer time for projects that involve physical activity, such as Habitat for Humanity.

13. Join a Health or Fitness Challenge

Many health bloggers host free mini-challenges throughout the year.  I’ve seen some focused on drinking more water, improving mindfulness, better meal planning, and battling cravings.  You can also search Pinterest for 30-day fitness challenges, such as a 30-Day Abs Challenge.

14. Create Your Own Rewards Program

For each of your milestones, determine a reward you will earn for achieving it.  It can be as small as a new article of clothing or as large as a weekend getaway.  Make them personal and relevant to your goals so you’ll know you’re working towards them.

15. Create Contingency Plans

You know those excuses and distractions that constantly get in the way of your good intentions?  Get in front of them by creating contingency plans for your obstacles.  Example: If you know you’ll skip your workout when you hit snooze a few too many times, find a 10 minute workout you can keep on reserve.

 

Track Your Progress

16. Use a Fitness App or Habit Tracker to Log Your Progress

One of the biggest struggles is feeling like you’re not getting any closer to your goals.  Tracking your progress, even in small intervals, will prove to you that your methods are working.  I love the My Fitness Pal app for measuring my progress and keeping track of my nutrition.  I also use paper habit trackers to check goals off my list daily.  Here are a few great apps and tools:

  • My Fitness Pal
  • FitBit
  • Lark
  • iTrackBites
  • JEFIT

17. Keep a Journal

Journals serve two great purposes when it comes to goals: you can write down your goals daily (some recommend twice per day) and you can reflect on how you feel throughout your journey.  Write about your progress, your struggles, your victories, and your emotions each day.

Track Your Progress

18. Schedule Check-Ins With Yourself

It’s helpful to reevaluate your goals and methods every now and then to ensure you’re still on the track you want to be on.  Schedule sessions once a quarter, or even once per month.  Ask yourself what’s working and what isn’t, and make adjustments to your plans as necessary.

 

Build a Support System

19. Work with a Friend

Combining fitness with social time is typically a win-win.  Find a friend who will be your “accountability buddy” (preferably one who has similar goals).  Plan activities together and share tips and ideas.  Check in with each other regularly to share your victories.

20. Work with a Trainer/Coach

Depending on your situation, you can choose from a personal trainer at your local gym or a virtual health and fitness coach.  Do your research before signing on with someone, and be sure they understand your current state and long-term goals.

21. Join a Support Group

Thanks to Facebook Groups, you can easily find a group that will fit your needs no matter where you are located.  If you’re following a specific diet or fitness plan, there are specialized groups and sometimes local chapters.  Wellness communities work to inspire members and offer assistance overcoming obstacles and answering questions.

 

The best way to stay accountable to your goals is to choose a combination of these strategies that aligns with your personality and needs.  Remember, you get a chance every second to make a decision that will move you closer to your goals!

Which strategies will you choose this year?

 

 

 

Filed Under: Featured, Health Tagged With: fitness, goals, health, motivation, resolutions

10 Items for Your 2pm Work Kit

June 25, 2015 by jlmdiscovery

Work Kit

No matter how motivated my morning is, by 2pm I’m ready to fall asleep at my desk.  If you’re in the same boat, try making your own pick-me-up work kit to kick your productivity back into gear.  Here are 10 items to include:

  1. Healthy snack – try a small 100 calorie protein + fiber snack (like an apple with peanut butter)
  2. Coffee/tea – savor a last cup of the day (caffeine takes several hours to wear off and can interrupt sleep)
  3. Dark chocolate square – because it’s a super food and we all know chocolate is good for the soul
  4. Scented lotion/essential oils – try a fun or refreshing scent, like lemon or peppermint, for a quick recharge
  5. Oil-absorbing wipes – give your skin an easy refresh with a cleansing pat down
  6. Comb/brush – getting your hair back in order can boost your mood a bit
  7. Gel eye cream – cool gels can help you wake up when drowsiness sets in
  8. Quote book – browse through your favorite inspiring quotes to focus your goals
  9. Stretching routine – take a moment to break away from your desk, take a walk, and stretch out your legs
  10. Upbeat playlist – choose your favorite songs and switch up your playlist to something positive for the rest of the afternoon

I hope this can help you power through the last few hours of your workday.  If you have any other items or habits to suggest, leave them in the comments below!

Filed Under: Career, Featured, Life Tagged With: energy, kits, kitting, motivation, productivity, work

Quick 10: 10 Inspirational Uses for Mason Jars

April 23, 2015 by jlmdiscovery

Mason Jar UsesI have fallen in love with mason jars.  I don’t even know why exactly.  But let’s be honest: they’re good sizes, sturdy, and pretty darn cute.  So when I found a 12-pack case of pint size jars on Amazon (and an equally adorable set of blue ones), I couldn’t resist.  This left me brainstorming all the different uses I could find for them.  My a-ha moment was when a friend told me about a “book jar”, a jar filled with scraps of paper detailing book titles that could be picked at random next time I needed a reading suggestion.  This got me thinking: what other decisions and ideas could I simplify by leaving them up to chance?  What thoughts could I store and save to be explored at random later on?  Here is my list of 10 inspirational uses for mason jars.

  1. Book Jar – write book or series titles to choose your next read
  2. Memory Jar – write your favorite memories (with your spouse, kids, etc) to read on a special occasion (New Year’s, anniversary)
  3. Boredom Jar – write ideas for all the things you (or your kids) can do next time you’re bored
  4. Workout Jar – write your favorite workout routines or individual exercises to change-up your fitness plan
  5. Gratitude Jar – write about things/moments you’re grateful for and review them next time you need a pick-me-up
  6. Rewards Jar – write a variety of [healthy/free] rewards you can use to treat yourself after a productive day
  7. Cheer Up Jar – write down all of the things that make you happy or can improve your mood on a rough day
  8. Date Jar – write all of your favorite or original date ideas (places to go, movies to watch, restaurants to try, etc)
  9. Writing Jar – write a list of writing/doodling prompts to kick start your creativity
  10. Motivation Jar – write down all of the ideas that inspire and motivate you

My favorite is the memory jar that my husband and I started when we got married last year, and I can’t wait to look through all of our entries on our first anniversary.  So next time you find yourself stuck, or you just want to add some variety to your life, try out one of these ideas.  Let me know what you think!

 

This post contains Amazon affiliate links, which means that I receive a bit of compensation if you make a purchase using the product links above.  It’s no extra cost to you, and I would never suggest a product I wouldn’t buy myself.  I hope you enjoy the recommendations!

Filed Under: Featured, Home, Life, Quick 10 Tagged With: DIY, inspiration, mason jars, motivation

3 Motivating Playlists to Power Through a Rough Day

April 6, 2015 by jlmdiscovery

Motivating Playlists

We all have those days where we’re staring down the minutes on the clock, reading our to-do lists over and over hoping they’ll finish themselves.  Fortunately, good music can work miracles.  Next time you’re feeling sluggish or down, try out one of these playlists:

Girl Power

  • Firework – Katy Perry
  • Raise Your Glass – P!nk
  • Edge of Glory – Lady Gaga
  • One More – Superchick
  • Stronger – Kelly Clarkson
  • Titanium – Sia
  • Brave – Sara Bareilles
  • Burn – Ellie Goulding
  • Born This Way – Lady Gaga
  • Hit Me With Your Best Shot – Pat Benatar
  • What the Hell – Avril Lavigne
  • Roar – Katy Perry

Determined

  • Headstrong – Trapt
  • You’ll Never Catch Me – Steve Harwell
  • You’re Gonna Go Far, Kid – The Offspring
  • Devour – Shinedown
  • Diamond Eyes – Shinedown
  • Boom – P.O.D.
  • I Will Not Bow – Breaking Benjamin
  • How Far We’ve Come – Matchbox Twenty
  • Light It Up – Fall Out Boy
  • Savior – Rise Against
  • New Divide – Linkin Park
  • Faint – Linkin Park
  • Bring Me to Life – Evanescence
  • Rise Above This – Seether

Classic Rock/80’s Montage

  • Shoot to Thrill – AC/DC
  • Walk This Way – Aerosmith
  • Eye of the Tiger – Survivor
  • We Will Rock You – Queen
  • T.N.T. – AC/DC
  • Carry On My Wayward Son – Kansas
  • Wanted Dead or Alive – Bon Jovi
  • You’re the Best Around – Joe Esposito
  • Something So Strong – Jim Capaldi
  • You Shook Me All Night Long – AC/DC
  • The Final Countdown – Europe
  • Welcome to the Jungle – Guns & Roses
  • Don’t Stop Believin’ – Journey
  • Rock You Like a Hurricane – Scorpions
  • Working for the Weekend – Loverboy
  • Danger Zone – Kenny Loggins

What music would you add?  If you have any favorite songs, playlists, or Pandora stations, please share them in the comments below!

Filed Under: Featured, Music Tagged With: classic rock, girl power, motivation, playlists

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